“She told me she was dating another guy, but they weren’t totally serious—they were more like friends with benefits,” he recalls. “She later explained that she liked me so much, she didn’t want to lead me on during that first date,” he says.
“In retrospect, I guess I can respect that.” If your date tells you he or she is dating other people, just be happy no secrets are being kept from you.
Between the hot wings and the halibut, she drops it on you: She’s just out of a major breakup and is seeing a few other men at the moment. Wrong, says Mac Leod: “This full disclosure means your date is very honest,” she says. “I paid for the margaritas and told her to call me if she ever dumped her so-called ‘friend,’” he recalls.
“She’s If you’re arguing, it can mean there’s passion between you.laying all her cards on the table and not pretending to be someone she’s not.” Over happy hour, Bob, 29, of Colorado Springs, CO, learned more than he ever wanted to know about his date, Jill. Four weeks later, she did—and Bob and Jill began dating in earnest.
“The next date, he was much more chilled out and relaxed,” she continues.
“He later told me he was nervous because I was the most beautiful woman he’d ever met. ” Extreme nervousness on a first date could be a good sign, says Mac Leod.
“She just kept asking me question after question—where I was from, what my favorite ice-cream flavor was, where I wanted to be in five years,” he says.