That's why dressing for his tastes — rather than just your own — every once in a while can have a big effect.
It doesn't have to be big — it just needs to be personal.
"The type and nature of the gesture is more important than the size," says Jess Carbino, a sociologist for Tinder.
And if you decide to explore elsewhere, it can give you time to become more aroused and really get to know every part of him, adds De Angelis.
RELATED: 10 Ways to Tell Him You Love Him Without Words A guy's time with his friends is just as important as your girls' nights out, and acknowledging that makes you look like an independent, confident, insanely sexy woman.
So if he's waffling on whether he should go catch that game with the guys, encourage him to make like Nike and just do it already.