In every relationship, there comes a point where you have to say those five little words: Are you seeing other people?
Lust or great sexual attraction is not enough; you need sexual chemistry and amazing emotional compatibility.
(I want to trademark that, by the way.) When someone consistently passes the friends’ approval test If you date a few people, your friends will inevitably end up meeting a cross section of your dates.
Level of Emotional or Intellectual Compatibility Simply put, if you still like sitting across the dinner table from someone a few months into dating, you really, really like that person.
Plus, the fact that you enjoy simply hanging out with them – say, having a random dinner – is a sign that this is someone you could enjoy being around for many years to come.
How do I know when someone meets enough criteria that it’s time to stop dating others and commit to that one person?