Keep a look out for these 7 signs you’re “hanging out,” not dating (Note: While these are written as tips a woman should look for in a man, most of these are signs men can watch out for in women, too.): Are you Dating or Hanging Out?As we know, there are always two sides to every story.Being honest and bold about your feelings doesn't come off as cheesy if you have self-confidence. It shows that getting rejected won't devastate you because you know and like who you are.
That's because asking someone out involves potential pain. Worst of all, you engage in the most banal and abysmal of non-dates-going to coffee.
If the object of your affection becomes aware of your intentions, he or she might not reciprocate, and that's going to hurt. Instead of asking someone out on a date and being bold in their intentions, they turn to the soggy milquetoast alternative to dating: "hanging out." Here's how it works: you like someone but you're afraid to let him or her know. It has the trappings of a date—a cozy ambiance, comforting beverages, atmospheric music—while allowing everyone involved to disavow the actual occurrence of a date.
Here are 7 ways you can tell if you’re actually on a date instead of spending time with a friend: It’s likely you’ve been on both sides of the situation at some point. While you won’t always be able to avoid it, here are a few ways you can be proactive and make sure you know for a fact whether you’re on a date or just “hanging out” with a friend: Figuring out relationships is tough enough as it is.
Do your part to keep communication and expectations clear in your relationships, whether you’re “hanging out” or dating.
Go ahead and hang out with someone if you're just getting to know him or her. They hang out perpetually, creating confusion and tension that could easily be dissipated by asking someone on a date.