Good sites can go bad, and those I don't recommend may improve.
Of course, new sites will debut that may or may not be of merit.
Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up.
It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.
As this sphere of operation is pretty sensitive the site’s reputation plays a significant role and you should not ignore it.