If you ‘hear’ validations of your frustrations, anger, and condemnations, you will have more obstacles to contend with. This is a problem for many people, and one I take very seriously. I created the SEW technique to help people, and advise its use.I used to be among the very few who advised against confrontation, condemnation, and venting. Not just for when you have troubles, but for your whole life.Marriage is the deepest and most holy relationship you will probably ever have. It means the pure soul of each of you is supposed to utilize your mind, your body, and your self control for the , in ways not possible in any other relationship; marriage is the perfect hive for that.
But if you take positive action you will not only save your marriage, but you will be able to have a great marriage; I promise you that, too. Either Lessons For A Happy Marriage, or Breaking The Cycle, which is more technical, and could be called a marriage manual; are great options. is in book stores all over the country, and is promoted by couples counselors (even though I recommend against couples counseling), so it sells better. If your marriage is in serious trouble, like if this is not the first time, you need to go all the way to our online courses.
My books get all positive reviews, because they are ideal guides. You should start your course first (there are two different courses; one is for women, and one is for men).
Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.
If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
His straying is a wake up call, or a death knell; that is up to you.