“Even husbands get involved in preparing their wives before going to a swinging event.
Who cares if nipples are showing or camel toe is visible, it’s all part of the fun,” said one of my interviewees.
I don’t want to be alone sitting at a table while he makes out with someone else on the dance floor. Some women posited: “Being overweight doesn’t make you less sexy or less appealing, it’s how you think of yourself that is important.” After the very first “swinging” experience, many women have stated that their husband looked at them with “ fresh eyes” and showed a higher level of sexual desire for them, that often rekindles the sexual spark and allows them to feel confident once again.
For women, feeling desired is a great confidence builder, and most women reported enjoying being seduced and desired.
Now, to suggest that everyone is accepted at the same level in the swinging communities would be disingenuous.