After the initial visit, the suitor is then expected to woo the girl by showing up in her house more often and establish rapport with the her family.
This is the stage where he does the "paninilbihan" or servitude.
At night, he will sing or love songs outside the girls house by the window with a guitar and his friends serving as back ups.
They will sing and wait until the lady finally opens the window and invites them into the house.
In doing this, they will have to bring with them, lots of food and presents as well as the dowry that they can present to the girls parents.